When A Brand Is More Liability Than Equity

"RIP Brands"Rest in peace, Muzak. Today, your corporate owner announced that they’d be killing you off in favor of the brand name “mood music.” As I quietly hum “Knock Three Times” to myself, I remember some of the other giant brands that have preceded you.

The great PanAm Airlines died an inglorious death in 1991, but it wasn’t so much that the brand name had become a liability as it was a matter of the business failing.  Eclipse Holdings, Inc bought the trademarks in 1993 and made use of the name in a few failed ventures. Now, it somehow has become the name of a railway.

We all know that a brand name can have the power of adding a lot of value to a company. If a generic can of cola sells for 75 cents, and I can sell a can of Acme Pop for $1.50, I have a price premium of 75 cents.  That can add up to a lot of money.

Every so often it happens in reverse.  I might have a care that I can sell for $12,000, but by slapping a brand new Edsel logo onto the side panel, I might lose a lot of that value even before driving out of the showroom.

Like the PanAm name, it isn’t unusual for iconic trademarked names to land on the auction block.  In one such brand auction in 2010 , the likes of Shearson, Meister Brau, and Handi-Wrap all went for under $50K each, while for about a thousand dollars, you could have been the proud owner of such forgotten brand names like Computer City and Allied Signal.  My favorite was Collier’s which was purchased by a college student from Philadelphia, who has, in fact, resurrected Colliers.

RiverWestBrands is a company that is one of the buyers of these old iconic brands. They are the proud holders of Bonwit Teller, Eagle (as in pretzels, remember?), and Brim (coffee). They’ve been able to make a case that these names can still create additional value.

It can be difficult to understand, sometimes, why a great heritage brand is killed off. Last year, the Shottenstein Property Group relinquished its attempt to revive the grand old Steuben brand name of crystal. Corning quietly took the name back, but apparently has no plans of reviving the brand name at this point. It’s not difficult to understand that the revenue they receive from Corning® Gorilla® Glass (the glass on your iPhone) far exceeds anything they’d ever make from the Steuben luxury brand.

So, Muzak, we salute you!  But if they ever decide to bring back Burma-Shave, I’m going to be using it, and singing the Girl From Ipanema.

My #ChangeChallenge Fitness Results Thanks To @MetaFitnessATX and @SmashFit

"John Boyle Before and After The Change Challenge"The fabulous Heather Frey has teamed up with the The Ricki Lake Show and launched The Change Challenge, a unique health and fitness challenge. Heather designed it to take the focus away from the scale and put the emphasis on what it is you need to DO. There are 5 phases of The Change Challenge, each with small, impactful but maintainable changes that will have you on your way to to new thinking that will bring new healthy habits. Heather reached out to me last Fall to review the program draft documents and asked that I provide feedback. I loved as it there is an obvious and easy starting point and clear guided path to healthy progress for anyone….not just the super fit athlete. She makes it easy and fun to make simple lasting changes and THAT is how you get your health and fitness and keep it forever.

 

I liked it and being at one of my “older Elvis” phases of health (see Day 1 photo above), I decided to give it a try and told Heather she could use whatever data points I had at the end of 12 weeks thinking my progress may help someone else. I recently submitted my thoughts and data to Heather for the Change Challenge Blog on the show’s website. Here they are.

 

Breaking Point

My blood work came back in October 2012 and my total cholesterol was up to 201. I snored. My mother suggested I take a snore test and get a sleep machine like my dad. My doctor asked if I wanted to take cholesterol medication. At 43 I had enough and felt I could work on my fitness and bring these things under control naturally instead of masking things with medication.

Change Challenge Accepted!

Heather Frey asked me to review and give feedback on her Change Challenge program. I loved it. It is great for every person regardless of where they start. I told her I would start to work on making changes as I kicked myself into gear and keep her posted on my progress.

Goals

Primary goal was to control all I could to ensure I will be around as long as possible for my family. In other words, work on all the things I could to be in the best shape possible. Secondary goals were to drop 40 lbs., fit into size 32s, start longboarding again, drop 10% bodyfat, reduce my total cholesterol and lower my blood pressure.

Deletions

Sitting on my tail. Bread, pasta, rice, candy, ice cream, beer, wine, soda, coffee, juice, fried food, breaded food, potatoes, regular milk, pre-mixed yogurt, sauces, dressing, high sugar protein bars. Carbs and sugar across the board. Going to sleep past 11pm and working out when I found time. I also dropped (after consulting my family doctor) a medication she prescribed to me that I may have contributed to my weight gain.

Additions

One hour a day of activity. At least 1 gallon of water a day. Green veggies, apples, berries, chicken breast, Silk Unsweetened Almond Milk, vodka/soda, lean meat such as filet, tilapia, tuna, more green veggies, Quest protein bars, Optimum Nutrition Gold Standard Whey Protein. Going to sleep no later than 10pm and getting workout done before 7:30am each day. Daily vitamin and vitamin E supplement (at my doctors request).

Help!

Not everyone can do it all on their own. I decided to start working with a trainer here in Austin, TX and was referred to a fantastic one…in fact the best I have ever worked with. I just cannot mix up the workout routines and am not that great with fine tuning food choices and caloric intake. Nicole Mendlik from MetaFitness here in Austin, TX kicked my tail into gear for the past 12 weeks. Every Monday, Wednesday and Friday I would get up early and do the group workout at their gym. She made me log my food, gave me homework the other days and mixed it up weekly. Halfway through I also found out that Nicole is a military veteran which I love and respect. It also explains the workout routines.  :-)

Fun Challenges

I am fortunate to work with a fun group at a company like Dell that promotes and supports employee health and wellness. Every month the Well at Dell Fitness Center has challenges and in November the challenge was rowing as far as you could in 2 minutes on the ergometer. I rowed in college and worked hard through that month until the last day I gave it a try and won the challenge by 3 meters (632 meters). Challenges with friends made it fun to get some additional exercise in and break up the routine. A definite add!

Results

My total cholesterol dropped from 201 to 149. My weight went from 250 to 211. Bodyfat dropped 11.3%. Blood pressure went from 135/90 to 117/72. I dropped from a size 40 to 32. And my oldest son Evan and I started hitting the streets on our longboards during the holidays and I stopped snoring. BAM!

Strangest Observation

Cucumbers always tasted bland but at 6g of sugar per cucumber, they started tasting sweet after about 9 weeks of really no sugar.

Updated Goals

Log my food every day. Drop 4-5% more bodyfat. Ignore the scale now that I am transforming more weight to muscle. Do a masters swim class once a week.

Change happens for everyone differently and it is an ongoing commitment. Best thing is to get started and make simple changes you can adapt to and build upon those over time. The Change Challenge is great for everyone and with Heather Frey we have a positive, experienced, friendly and motivating leader to help guide us all. Cheers!

Join in and get started on your own The Change Challenge!  Of course feel free to post any questions for me. Very happy to answer anything about my nutrition/training program and anything else learned along the way.  Cheers yáll!

*Two “after” photos by Kevin Saunders, magellandigital.com. and the fab “before” photo was taken by Nicole Mendlik, metafitnessatx.com

2012 #Nifty50 lists of Top Twitter Men and Women in Technology

Just announced is the 2012 #Nifty50 list of Top Twitter Men in Technology. It is a fantastic list and I am very honored to be included with so many familiar faced and new connections.

These lists are a nice shout out and I appreciate the effort and hours Cheryl K. Burgess and Tom Pick put into this years #Nifty50 Top Twitter Tech list. They are both fantastic “tweeps” that you must get to know and do fantastic work. What I really love is that the #Nifty50 lists provide a fresh opportunity for new socialsphere engagements in areas other than Social Media 101.

I love technology. I am a geek at heart and I love meeting, conversing and working with other geeks with a passion for bits, bytes and innovation.

So here are both the men’s and women’s #Nifty50 Top Twitter Tech lists for 2012.

“What a dish!” – Random Thoughts of Meaningful Life Moments

apple-pieEver have a moment during your day when you think of a meaningful interaction with someone important in your life? I mean the totally random reflection on a moment that has nothing to do with what your were currently working on, reading, or watching?

I just had one of those moments while working on a technology focused presentation for this upcoming week and there is no reason it should have popped into my head other than that person, my Grandma Margaret Cline, had a huge impact on my life. The moment I thought of was not a big chunk of time, about a huge expensive trip or associated with a gift or material thing. It was at the most 60 seconds in my life that stuck with me always because it was a special human moment. A moment worth sharing.

I used to visit my grandmother while I was in college almost every weekend for dinner, homemade apple pie, lemonade and a sit on the back porch. My grandfather, Paul Cline, had recently passed away. My grandparents were married for over 50 years and even though grandma was raised at a time when you had to be strong, I knew she missed her Paul. Grandma was lucky to have tons of family surrounding her, spending time and showering her with love as she was such a sweet woman who was a giver. The classic grandma showering us all with hugs and kisses and love.

One Sunday I paused in her hallway as a photo of my grandparents from the 1920s capturing one of their first days as a couple caught my eye. Grandpa looked exactly like a young Robert De Niro, slicked back hair just like the actor (sans mustache) in The Godfather Part 2. Grandma was stunning young woman with a radiant smile.

As I was admiring their moment captured in that old photograph, my grandma came up behind me and said in her sweet voice “Wasn’t I a dish?” I laughed because her comment was so her…so generational…so priceless. I hugged her, gave her a big kiss on the cheek and told her “Grandma, you are still a dish!” We both smiled and went on to enjoy another tasty dinner and nice visit in the backyard.

Grandma passed away in 2004. I miss her! But I love and cherish the many special memories like this that pop into my days and make me smile.

“What a dish!”  <chuckling with a smile>

Random thoughts at random times about special moments with real people that impacted our lives. There is my “share.” Would love to read yours.

Your Social Voice – Are You A Faker?

"Fake"From the time that I was young I can remember my mothers “Phone Voice.”

The metaphor of her “Phone Voice” is how I define the way she answers the phone. Her greeting was like no other I’d ever heard; comprised of the clearest, kindest, most eloquent voice. It was unmistakable It didn’t really matter what was going on around her. She always answered this way.

I distinctly remember one time when she was screaming her head off at my sister and I only for her to stop when the phone rang to deliver a perfect rendition of her famous greeting.

While my mother is a wonderful person, this voice was not, and it wasn’t her. It was a total fraud. I knew this even as a child because she never spoke with this voice except when she picked up the call.

Since my not so fond memories of this date back to before the caller ID, I’m pretty sure she did this just in case someone really important was calling. At the very least I’m justifying it this way in my mind.

Now that we always know who is calling the element of surprise is gone. Now we know who is calling. This allows even her to answer the pone a bit more candidly.

The funny thing is how small things in life can have a big impact. The fake voice that my mother used to answer the phone drove me crazy. I never understood why you would want to be anyone but you and because of this I swore I would only be me. While perhaps a moving target, I never wanted anyone to question if I’m real.

Today the phone voice has waned, but it has been replaced. This time not by good old mom, but by a mass of social media users.

This mass of users is best characterized by those that want to always display an image because of the uncertainty of who may be listening.

After all, a good first impression is important.

Problem is, there are some misconceptions about the good ole first impression.

In fact there are many, and I won’t bore you with all of them, but here is one to take with you…

If you have to lie, mislead, misinform, or act any way that isn’t representative of “YOU,” then it isn’t a good first impression. It is the foundation of a relationship that will have to continue to be built on false pretenses.

Unfortunately, the real “Us” always finds its way to the surface, it is really only a matter of when that happens.

As I have been around the “Social Media” world longer I have become more and more aware of the fake voice.

It isn’t really that hard to see it, just think about your 360 degree life off of the internet…People just aren’t so one dimensional in real life, but they can often seem that way online. Overly happy, nice, affectionate (Hugs, xo, etc), inspirational or other…

It can become even more visible when you start to meet some of these “Handles” in the real world. It is almost immediately apparent that the online personality and the offline person are hardly one and the same.

What is even more crazy is sometimes I end up liking the real person better. That is probably because no one is happy, perfect, or shiny all of the time. It is the ebbs and flows that really make life worth living.

This often leaves me wondering, why so many fakers?

Obviously not everyone is faking it. I’ve met some truly wonderful people via the social sphere. Would it surprise you if I suggest that many of the best ones are often much more electric in person than on line.

Having said that, I have also met some of the most prolific people online to find out that they are hardly prolific in real life.

As for me, I am what I am. This will probably limit my potential in the social space, but I’m okay with that. I’ve always believed in having a few really meaningful relationships rather than lots of acquaintances.

You can also count on the fact that I’m going to share what I think. This is the only thing that makes sense to me since Social Media is really just the interaction of “Real People” on a virtual platform. But I digress…

So how about you. Are you for real, or are you doing social media with a phone voice?

The Value of Integrity

"Integrity"Skechers recently agreed to settle a class action lawsuit about its “Shape-Up” shoes to the tune of about $40 million dollars. At issue were claims that the shoes would tone your muscles without having to go to the gym. Their brand ambassador Kim Kardashian fawned on the shoes in commercials on TV and magazines – and it was wildly successful from a sales perspective. The problem was that their claims were bogus. Accompanying documentation described that a proper diet and other provisions would have to be adhered to in order to achieve the intended results, but even their fine print disclaimer couldn’t abdicate Skechers of their responsibility for their lie.

Here’s my dirty little secret: I have a pair of Shape-Ups and I love them. I didn’t get them for the passive fitness benefit, but at the time I had been carrying my two-year old on my back (for about two-years, actually) and my back and feet were sore. The Shape-Up shoe is one of the coziest walking shoes I’ve ever worn and were the only shoes that I could comfortably walk in. They have a thick, cushioned center that is like walking on lotion (I have to credit Aziz Ansari for that simile). I am no more toned than when I got the shoes, but that was never my intention. I love Shape-Ups and would buy them again.

I know first hand that Skechers Shape-Ups are an extraordinarily product. I also know that a promise of passive fitness benefit is a huge marketing opportunity. Only one of those claims is authentic though, and Skechers opted for easy money at the expense of their integrity. One only needs to read through the press releases of most corporations to understand that Skechers took the road often traveled, and it’s both a sad state for these businesses and a huge opportunity for businesses that preserve their brand reputation. Whether in social media, traditional media, or in our everyday lives, brands with integrity are special. The Shape-Up shoe had the potential for that for Skechers but they chose the low road.

In the blogosphere, John Boyle’s “BrandFlair” sets the bar for integrity. His ethos is the absolute opposite of Skechers, and what I’ve appreciated about his work over the past year both in reading his blog and from getting to know him through social media is that he approaches branding and social with a “white-hat” mentality. Some might propose his Seattle upbringing or Jesuit education flavor his viewpoint (two things we share), but regardless of what influenced him John has built his brand with an integrity and sincerity that I deeply admire. I want to publicly wish Brand Flair a happy anniversary and many more years advising us how to build brands the right way and how to strengthen the trust we receive with meaningful social touch points.

And a sincere thank you to John for the work you’ve put into the site and your social media presence. The mark of a true leader is leadership by example – and true leader is an apt description for you and your work. Congrats!

Leadership and Longhorns – Reloaded!

"Longhorn Helmet"I am very excited about my first guest post for John Boyle’s BrandFlair blog.  John and I share a few passions:

1. Love for Austin, TX and the Lonestar State.
2. Exhilaration/Exasperation while following University of Texas (UT) Longhorn Football (Hook ‘Em).
3. Grilling/Smoking just about anything – preferably with a cold one within arm’s reach (Shiner Bock, anyone?).

I am here to be both a realist and an optimist while comparing UT Football to company leadership. Both of these fine entities hope to follow the same path:

Aspire to Greatness → Achieve Greatness → Reload, and Do It Again

From 2001 to 2009, the Texas Longhorns won at least 10 football games each season. In that span, they won the National Championship in 2005, and they had a legitimate shot at another National Championship in 2009 before Colt McCoy was hurt in the first quarter. Fans of the 45-35 win over Oklahoma will even argue that Texas should have played for the National Championship in 2008!

Texas aspired to greatness, they achieved greatness over a long tenure, and then along came 2010 and a 5-7 record! What happened?!? Leaders and key players moved on to the next level.

Star players like Vince Young, Jamaal Charles, Brian Orakpo and Colt McCoy went to the NFL. Will Muschamp went from “head coach in waiting” at Texas to head coach for the University of Florida. Succession plans stumbled, the players/coaches left behind felt the weight of missed expectations, and the dreaded “rebuilding” word reared its head.
We experience similar circumstances within successful organizations:

  •   Key project contributors get bumped up into a management role or hired away from us to pursue that “perfect opportunity.”
  •   Key leaders on our management team get impatient with the succession plan, and they strike out on their own or get stolen away by other  companies who can fast-track them to their leadership goals.
  •   Our blue chip hires prove to be more suited to complementary roles versus leadership or innovation.
  •   Our fans – our clients – let us know we are missing their delivery expectations as we work through these transitions.

So how do we approach this rebuilding process, and reload for another long run of success?

1. Always Recruit the Blue Chips – Your recruiters should always be on the lookout for the next superstars. This might be graduates right out of college who embrace and pursue the efficient use of new technology, or juco transfers who have proven themselves within competing organizations and are looking for the next challenges.
2. Maintain a Winning Program – Success breeds success, and everybody wants to play for the winning team. The University of Texas annually has a top-5 recruiting class because they have a tradition of success while preparing players to play at the next level (the NFL). Build your company for sustainable success, and the recruits will choose you over your competitors. They are also less likely to transfer to another program as they witness your continued commitment to success.
3. Grow Talent Within – Signing top recruits is crucial. Grooming them to take on greater responsibility is the next step. You should also provide training for your assistant coaches – your managers and directors – so they feel appreciated and equipped. As more senior employees and leadership move on, this well-groomed next generation can step into leadership roles without breaks in continuity.
4. Define and Execute a Succession Plan – Blue chip players want to know their timeline for getting their chance to shine. Productive assistant coaches want to know when they get a chance to take on a greater role, and recognition, for the team. Employees and management team members feel the same way. Provide them a clear, performance-based strategy to help them reach their career goals.

Is your organization in the midst of a long run of success? Are you focused on recruiting and growing young talent? Does that talent have a clear picture that matches their career goals? We would love to get your comments!

 

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40 Words and Phrases I Want to Ban Online

"Banned"One of my favorite comedians is Louis CK. One day when I wasn’t feeling too good I found his show Hilarious on Netflix and I gave it a watch. Turned out to be rather brilliant. There are a few main threads in the show, but it gets its name from a section where Louis talks about word usage. He notes that “hilarious” means that something is so funny it could literally cause you to be hysterical. Is what you just called “hilarious” really HILARIOUS? Probably not. This show comes to mind almost every day as I surf the online waters. It’s so easy to type words, and without facial expressions or vocal intonation, it’s easy to use words casually as if their impact is non-existent.

Well, today I’m serving as your Jiminy Cricket – that voice in your head that makes you stop and ponder. I’ve come up with 40 words and phrases that I see online all of the time, and I think people don’t really calculate the impact they have, especially if you can’t back up these particular words with actual actions and knowledge. I am protesting, in other words. So without further adieu, the 40 words and phrases I’d love to never see online ever again (unless you REALLY mean them).

Words of self-aggrandizement

1. Guru – You’re a masterful teacher? Are you sure?
2. Master – You don’t look like He-Man…
3. Expert – What does being a Twitter expert mean? Can you tweet “140 at a time” better than anyone else?
4. Specialist – This one might not be too bad, but again, you should back it up. If you’re a marketing specialist, you should be able to define words like “brand,” for example.
5. Ninja – So, you’re a covert or feudal mercenary agent from feudal Japan? Alright then.
6. Jedi –I knew Yoda, sir. And no Yoda are you. You’re not even green and fuzzy.
7. Pro – Is there a Professional Marketing League (PML) we don’t know about for Pro Marketers?  Sounds more like a fantasy league.

“I do not think this word means what you think it means” words

8. Transparency – This does not mean sharing every pimple on your butt.
9. Authenticity – This does not mean showing pictures of your life to show how great it is.
10. Engaging – This does not mean “Just talking to peeps” or in many cases “down” to peeps.
11. Conversation – This does not mean you tweeting or Facebooking AT people (although the @ sign in Twitter does make this confusing, I’ll admit)
12. Community – Not the same thing as a clique that benefits the few.  Watch Heathers for clarification.
13. Human – I know, it seems weird that I would want to see this word banned, but I think people have used this word so often online we’ve actually forgotten how to be, well, human. I’d rather the species than the word, if given a choice.

Made up online words

14. Caturday – I’m all for cute kittens, but this word makes my skin crawl.  So would Dogurday.
15. Klout – I know, it’s not just a word, it’s a state of mind. Still…
16. LOL – It has had a GREAT run. Let it retire.
17. Kred – See Klout
18. #Anything #with #a #hashtag – Can anyone explain to me why we need to #hashtag words like #thanks on #Twitter?
19. Influencer – Granted, this is a real word. However, and I say this with all love and compassion, the online world has made it gross

Strings of Innocent Words that Become Punishable Phrases

20. Said no one ever – Possibly chortle funny the first time, the number of memes I’ve seen with these words is beyond my capacity to count now.
21. I know, right? – OK, I’ve even used this one a few times. But it needs to stop. I’ve quit cold turkey. So can you.
22. No offense but…  – Have you ever seen someone start a sentence that way and then NOT say something offensive? It’s like the Midwest version of “Bless her heart.” Just be mean already!
23. Is the mayor of… – Do you really want me to know that you’re the mayor of the toilet paper store? If so, why?
24. Is at… – OK, maybe I’m just anti-Foursquare, but seriously, I don’t need to know where you are every waking minute. These two seemingly banal words fill my online world and make me sad.
25. Has poked you – Do I need to explain this one?
26. Is Dead – If one more thing is declared dead (print, email, marketing, advertising, the web, the world) – I might have to shoot a unicorn. Speaking of which…
27. Return on… – Marketing talk will be more difficult without these two words, but if we just stick with ROI I think it’ll be easier. Return on Ignorance, Influence, Idiocy, or whatever else people come up with is just, well, it needs to stop.
28. Is a douchebag! – I’ve always thought it was interesting that it’s mostly men who use this insult. You know why? Women know exactly what this insult means, and it’s too crude for us!
29. Haters gonna hate! – I don’t know how many times I’ve seen this over my short interlude in the online world, but it’s too many. Dismissing people who disagree with you in this manner, well, it makes me feel…hateful!
30. Thought Leader – This one creeps me out to be honest. Are we the Borg, here to absorb your thinking? Bah!
31. Mommy/Daddy Blogger – Why do we have to use the diminutive for these folks? Especially in the case of women, the phrase “mommy blogger” just seems to place powerful online women into a category everyone can feel more comfortable with.
32. I #Followback – Have you encountered a Twitter account that had this in the bio and was not a total spam account?

Words and Phrases That Are Just Plain Tired

33. Forms of “Rock” – “You Rock!”….”Rockin’ the <fill in the blank>.  Kurt Cobain would say “Smells Like Fake Spirit.”
34. Awesome
– This is another word that Louis CK attacks. Awesome = to be filled with awe. Are you sure that person or thing fills you with awe?
35. A-Lister – How many blog posts are there that use this in the subject line, for good or ill? LOTS.
36. Personal Brand – Can we find another way to say that we are tweeting a lot about ourselves and our stuff?
37. Un-whatever – OK, I know this started with a book title, and that was clever and cool. I’d like to undo this prefix now, please.
38. Content Marketing – Is there nothing else to do? And speaking or which…
39. Content is King – Where’s the prince already? Hasn’t something else take up the reign yet?
40. That quote from Thomas Edison about how much he failed – It’s sure to get you a lot of RTs, but golly. Didn’t anyone else experience failure apart from him?

Well, there you have it. Forty words and phrases I’d love to see no more (after this).  You know this is just the tip of the iceberg!  What would you add?

John’s (aka @BrandFlair) Birthday Message to the Socialsphere

1st-birthday-candleSometime this Summer of 2012 marks the first year of my personal blog BrandFlair.com. My first post was probably in June of 2011. I really should have shared an anniversary post earlier but since it is my blog and the Summer has been filled with good times with friends and family I am doing it today on my birthday.

The past year being engaged in social media with my blog and many new social venues has been for the most part a very pleasurable, rewarding and fun experience. Of course with any endeavor you have the eye opening and rocky moments along the way but I have enjoyed 99.9% of those people I have encountered and engaged with in Social Media.  I have also been thrilled to reconnect with so many from my pre-Social Media past and look forward to growing those friendships.

 

I was going to share a list of good, bad and ugly things I have experienced during my first year but at the last minute decided to instead share my Grandfather’s final letter to the family he sent us on his 90th Birthday.  With all that is going on in the world I think my grandfather’s letter can help us pause and perhaps reflect on the things that really matter in our lives.

Through this reflection I challenge each of us to do these three things this next year and especially these next three months.

 

1) Identify things that truly matter and let go of petty squabbles whether they be online, political, personal, family, or whatever. Do not expend energy on negatives. Expend it on positives.

 

2) Get back to meaningful, respectful dialogue backed up by solid critical thought instead of quick hits and quips. Bring back the art of conversation via face to face and/or ear to ear.   Listen more.

 

3) Let go of something in the past that rubbed you the wrong way and move on.   Forgive but also mend.

 

I will be the first to put my foot forward to do these growing BrandFlair.com and sincerely hope you enjoy my grandfather’s words and reflections below.  Thanks to all of you for making my first year blogging an enjoyable, rewarding and engaging experience.  <virtual toast> Here is to year two and beyond.  Cheers! – John (aka @BrandFlair).

 

“On the occasion of one’s 90th birthday, it seems that there should be something in the history to talk about. Well there is, there’s really a huge inventory to chatter about. Then there is the theory that, perhaps, most things should be un-said. I do not subscribe to that theory. So, here goes!

Childhood was much different some 85 years ago, in that we had no radio, and certainly no TV. We had diseases such as diphtheria, typhoid, and flu – all of which came with virtually no medication. And there was no modern refrigeration only the ice box that needed to be “fed” and emptied of the melted ice. There were no super markets, no malls – and above all, very little money. Cars were just beginning to find their way into the economy. Public transport, via street car, was somewhat available. However, things were cheap by present standards. A quart of milk was no more than ten cents. The cheapest item in the meat department was liver, and we had lots of that. Also chipped beef on toast was often on the table, as well as corned beef hash. But, we had lots of eggs and chicken – we raised chickens as almost everyone did. And, my Mom would make the greatest custard pudding.

So, my beloved sister and I began growing up when we moved to a place called Santa Ana. Seems that was about 1924. We lived in a small place across from a church. We liked going to the church because they had picnics at the Orange County Park where one could be on their little lake in a rental boat, and there were hot dogs. There was one occasion that was clouded with our stealing a couple of bucks that were on the mantle that our Dad put there to help pay the rent. We got caught, but with a bunch of discipline, weeping, and wailing we were permitted to go to the picnic. That was a good early lesson! During the time at this first home in Santa Ana was when my sister and I received our first bikes.

Some short period of time later, our parents bought a home on South Main Street. It was an adequate home with a nice garden where we had two orange trees, a grapefruit and fig tree along with a vegetable garden. This was about the time that radio was being discovered as a household item, and Charles Lindbergh flew across the Atlantic. My Dad said, “Robert, some day they will fly across that ocean every day.”

My sister and I went through high school in Santa Ana, she went on to Berkeley. I was not a very good student. I played football on the High School championship teams and one in Junior College, thus three gold footballs. So much for my formal education. The South Main home was the one that I left when I went to work in San Francisco at the age of 19. That was the same year, 1934, that I worked on a Stanley Dollar steamship, the President Coolidge on a 60 day cruise to Japan, China and the Philippines. I had seen so much unrest and poverty during this 60 day travel that I strongly felt the urge to become gainfully employed. That began my 30 year career with Hills Bros Coffee.

After four years working in the factory at Hills, and experiencing most operations, I decided to return to Southern California to pursue and education. However, I was intercepted by Grey Hills who offered me the opportunity to go to Chicago for training as a salesman. I was then sent to Detroit to sell our coffee to stores that never had it before – a real struggle. During this period, the Lord and Grey Hills had much to do about getting me to Michigan in 1938, where I met the “Star” of my life, Stella Marie.

After some three years of selling coffee in Michigan, and virtually opening that market, along came the draft for the army. I was inducted in Michigan, and shipped, as a private, to Camp Wallace, Texas, located 50 miles about South of Houston. I was in Houston on week-end leave when the Japanese hit Pearl Harbor in December 1941. Things got really serious after that, and while I was working as a Company Clerk, my Captain asked me to apply for Officers Candidates School. Thus, without any formal education I followed his suggestion. They must have been in really great need because they did accept me after the second interview. I became a “ninety-day wonder” after much struggle, and seeing so many of my classmates sent back to Corporal rating. I was assigned to Fort Bliss in El Paso, Texas with a 2nd Lieutenant rating – soon to be a Company Commander in and Anti-Aircraft Battalion, which was attached to the 82nd Anti-Aircraft Group. Things happened quickly as I soon moved to the Group in command for the Group Company.
Now to maneuvers, and into the Group Administration, then assigned as the advanced detachment for our Group to go to The European Theater, London. I went on to the Anti-Aircraft Command in London and “in charge” when all others went to the “Far Shore” for combat leaving me with staff only.

After Germany surrendered, my boss, General Thiele, called to say that he was assigned to establish Shrivenham American University, and that I would assist him and go the Shrivenham to get things going. Another new career was now beginning which included bringing in some of our finest professors in America to the University. Beyond that the establishment of a home for the General along with a General Mess where the entire department heads gathered for three meals per day. All of our regular maintenance service was from German P.O.W’s.

After two terms at the University, I asked the General to go home where I could see my “Stella,” and two year old son that I had never seen. Request granted, and with orders on however, and when I wished to go. I chose a friend, Andy White, to go with me. Andy had been a baritone with the then famous Fred Waring Band.

When we arrived in New York aboard the Queen Mary, December 1945, we were invited to the Lambs Club Christmas Party, a club that only famous actors are invited to join. We attended in uniform (the only dress we had), and were treated as though the two of us had won the war alone. We literally could not carry all the gifts.

I arrived, by train, in Alhambra just a day or so before Christmas, and was met by Stella, Robert Jr., and my parents – a wonderful conclusion to the years overseas. Indeed, a great thrill to see our son who only knew me as “Bud,” the name my parents often used. A great joy to see my “Star” Stella. I was discharged from the Service in April 1946.

Life had greatly changed, and so back to selling coffee when I was assigned to a sales territory in San Francisco. Eventually, we were transferred to Denver where we took our “busy” Robert and freshly born Peter to our 900 sq. foot mansion for a couple of years. When Margaret Mary was born, our Sweetheart of the Rockies, we returned to the Bay Area. Our family fortunes were enhanced by the arrival of Suzanne, and later (via a camping trip) Bill.

My career at Hills continued as Advertising Manager, but not really happily because of general management unrest along with post-war depression. However we did establish what we thought was an adequate home in Orinda which we loved, and where we lived for 26 years while raising five kids on a salary which would amount to a fifth of our living expenses today. I might add that each time a new child was born to us there was “wonderment” in the corridors of the Hills office.

After a 30 year career at Hills as a most loyal employee, the “cards” and Stella said, “lets make a move.” So, we did so, along with much speculation about what was next. Stella was teaching at that time, so along with that The Lord really took over, and we landed on our feet, so to speak. After the kids “flew the coop” we began traveling, and to more than 35 countries. Many wonderful memories!

Our greatest joy, however, has always been our family. We now have the pleasure of five lovely kids, and their eleven children, along with five beautiful “Greats.” So, with this Stella Marie (this Star of the Sea) we are husband and wife for these 62 years, and at this moment, surrounded with the result of this alliance, I can only ask, Dear Lord, how anyone could deserve such a wonderful gift – the gift of all of you, our cherished family. This day, we are truly blessed, and we thank you for your love.”

Major Robert L. Boyle, US Army (Retired)
January 23rd, 2005

 

 

 

Remembering D-Day – The Eisenhower Speech

eisenhower-d-dayEvery June 6th we pause to remember the sacrifices and success of the many men and women involved in planning and executing the D-Day invasion of Europe. General Dwight D. Eisenhower’s speech to the troops 68 years ago just before the invasion says it all.

Transcript:

“Soldiers, Sailors and Airmen of the Allied Expeditionary Force! You are about to embark upon a great crusade, toward which we have striven these many months. The eyes of the world are upon you. The hopes and prayers of liberty loving people everywhere march with you. In company with our brave Allies and brothers in arms on other fronts, you will bring about the destruction of the German war machine, the elimination of Nazi tyranny over the oppressed peoples of Europe, and security for ourselves in a free world.

Your task will not be an easy one. Your enemy is well trained, well equipped and battle hardened, he will fight savagely.

But this is the year 1944! Much has happened since the Nazi triumphs of 1940-41. The United Nations have inflicted upon the Germans great defeats, in open battle, man to man. Our air offensive has seriously reduced their strength in the air and their capacity to wage war on the ground. Our home fronts have given us an overwhelming superiority in weapons and munitions of war, and placed at our disposal great reserves of trained fighting men. The tide has turned! The free men of the world are marching together to victory!

I have full confidence in your courage, devotion to duty and skill in battle. We will accept nothing less than full victory!

Good Luck! And let us all beseech the blessings of Almighty God upon this great and noble undertaking.”

– Gen. Dwight D. Eisenhower

 

Audio of the speech with video from the invasion.