Karmic Ways To Pay It Forward Online

Ying Yang Online KarmaOnline in the social sphere people seem to either engage with genuine passion because they enjoy doing so or with motive because they want something. Peggy Fitzpatrick (@PegFitzpatrick) recently published a fantastic post called “12 Most Transparent Ways to See Through Someone in Social Media.” I witness so many examples of people paying it forward online that I want to call out some of the best methods for people to put into practice and spread the good #SK (Social Karma).

1. Engage without expectation

Interact with people online who you enjoy interacting with. Not who you perceive to be the cool tweeps on the block. Everyone has their unique set of interests and if you genuinely and passionately engage people your circle of online friends and influencers will grow.

2. Retweets

So simple yet so many do not do it. If a tweet catches your eye and touches any bit of your soul, give the author a retweet (RT) and share the love with your networks. Better yet, leave a tweet better than you found it and add a comment and hashtag.

3. Mentor

Whether you are a social media vet with legions of dedicated followers or a someone specializing in a niche area, be open to mentoring others online. Share your passion and expertise about the social sphere and topics that interest you and help plant some seeds for another person’s online success.

4. Backlinks

A great benefit to your fellow online friends is the backlink. When you write a comment mentioning them or content they have created, take the time to add in a hyperlink to the specific post or their site.

5. +K on Klout

Klout gets a lot of mixed reviews for their algorithm and whether or not it effectively measures online influence. One feature that everyone should love regardless of their opinion of Klout scores is +K. Five times a day I get to acknowledge people in various topics that Klout lists on their profiles and tweet it out to the world. I personally make sure to do it every night before I go to sleep and add in a few words and hashtags because I think it matters.

6. Attribution

July 2011 one of my favorite tweeps Jessica Northey (@JessicaNorthey) published a post “Stealing Other People’s Work is Bad Social Media Karma!”. Someone had lifted her #CMChat description word for word. Apparently they even ripped off her slogan as well. No credit was given to Jessica and the only modifications to both were changing all #CMChat references to the new chat board name. Let it be known that Jessica and any other people like her work hard on their content and branding and doing something like this is bad Karma. Just ask the person who copied Jessica’s material if you can find her. She apparently had to close down all social sites associated with the offending brand. Regardless, it is good Karma to ask someone if you can quote or repost some of their work provided you clearly attribute the material to the creator and link to the source.

7. Collaboration

Socrates said “True knowledge is knowing you know nothing.” So true. We cannot possibly create all content solo. Offering to collaborate through joint chats, reviewing and giving feedback on others draft posts, and offering a guest author spot on your blog are great ways to pay it forward and expand your horizons in the process.

8. Shoutouts

I love these. Calling someone out online and saying something positive about them and their work just because. It just oozes Karma!

9. Blog roll

A good blog should have a list of links called a “Blogroll” that links to favorite online people or blogs. Like backlinks, these help traffic to another site as well as search results. A great compliment to give another online.

10. Make a connection

“Tweep A meet Tweep B.” In other words if you know that two people in your online circles would benefit from knowing each other, offer up an introduction and a few positive words about each one to get the engagement going. People who do this without being asked are social for the right reasons.

11. Reviews

Like retweets, this is a great way to pay a compliment and recognize great work by those you engage with. Anything from a simple “Thumbs Up!” to a more in depth comment to keep the discussion going is a fantastic compliment to any blogger and it may be the thing that helps inspire their next epic post.

12. Co-host a chat

There are so many great chats online that so many of us benefit from, and the people hosting them every week are saints for doing so. All of us who cannot commit to a weekly chat can pay it forward to them and everyone attending by offering to co-host a chat. Take your pick. Great examples of weekly Twitter chats driven by talented giving people who would love a solid guest host are #Toolschat (hosts: @Leowid and @Mqtodd), #LinkedInChat (host: @LinkedInExpert) and #SMmanners (host: @DabneyPorte) There are many more excellent chats out there as well. Take your pick.

I am sure there are more excellent ideas out there of how to pay it forward online. I invite you all to expand this list by adding comments and to share these ideas with others in the social sphere. Wishing you all good Social Karma!

 

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This Post by John Boyle origionally published on 12Most.com

Supercalafragalisticexpialadocious Suggestions For Your Disneyland Holiday

DisneylandWe recently visited Disneyland (California) with our family, my mother and mother-in-law. It was a fantastic magical holiday enjoyed by all. I had not been to the park since I was in high school (um..a few years back..ROFL) and loved every minute of it. Here are a few tips for any of you planning a holiday to Disneyland that may make your time there more enjoyable.

1. Make A Plan

Disneyland is now made up of two parks (Disneyland & California Adventure) and a dining/shopping area (Downtown Disney). Have a plan for your must see and do attractions. If you have four days, take two for each park and save some time for shopping on the final afternoon. Wear good shoes as we walked 36 miles over four days on our recent holiday to Disneyland.

2. Choosing A Hotel

Back in the day it made a difference whether you stayed at one of the onsite park hotels or not. Today there are many fantastic options two miles or less away from Disneyland at over half the price. We discovered the Hyatt Orange County during our last visit and returned again this time. The Hyatt is a fantastic location, great for families, many dining choices across the street, and a Target a block down the road. Great room but I never really saw it as we were too busy playing at Disneyland.

3. Smartphone Applications

Two social media applications were fantastic at Disneyland. Foursquare and Instagram. Every single location in the park is a check in and what can be cooler than to announce to your Twitter followers and Facebook friends that you just checked into Disneyland. A great chance to add a photo and tips as you progress through the park. Instagram gets priceless photos touched up using various filters and effects and emailed off to family in no time. Epic!

4. Buy The Park Hopper Pass

The three day Park Hopper pass is the way to go as it allows you any rides in both parks with in and out privileges. Brilliant!

5. Rent A Stroller

Whether you have kids or not rent one. Makes getting around with your gear and purchases much easier and there are ample parking. Note to families that they rent single strollers, no doubles. You can bring your own into the park. Stroller rental is on the right before you enter the main gate!

6. Get in the Disney Spirit

This is not any fun park people. This is The Magical Kingdom. For those of us who visited long long ago, we tend to forget the difference. Whether you are a returning Disney veteran or first timer take time to pause, read and embrace the quote on the arch before entering the park. “Here you leave today and enter the world of yesterday, tomorrow, and fantasy.”

7. Visit the Mad Hatter

On your first day head to the Mad Hatter and buy your Mickey ears. There are many to choose from these days and choices of font and styles for your monogrammed name. Be fun and act like a kid again. I wore mine for all four days. Something about seeing a big six foot dad with three kids all wearing ears made people smile. Good mojo! Ears with your name are $17 dollars a pair.

8.Disney Flair

One little known fact is that every shop and stand in Disneyland has a stash of buttons for different occasions. My daughter was on her first trip to the park and it was here birthday week so she wore the “First Trip” and “Birthday” buttons while I just wore my “Birthday” button. The rest of our family wore the “Celebrating” buttons. Park workers wield more power than you know and they recognize and appreciate the flair. You may even be offered a spot at the front of a line or a Universal Fast Pass. Other buttons include Graduation, Anniversary, Engagement, Marriage, etc.

9. Grab A FastPass

Use your map to identify popular rides you want to try. Plan to get FastPasses for these rides when the park opens and throughout the day. FastPasses give you a range of time when you can return and hop in the fast lane (they really are fast) without waiting ninety minutes plus. You can only have two at a time. Tip: FastPasses for the Star Wars ride in Disneyland run out early in the morning so be sure to get there first if you want to try that ride. Tip 2: If you have an extra park pass for someone not needing a ride’s FastPass (grandma, mother in law, etc.) get one anyway. Before you head to the front of the line find someone at the end of the regular line and give them a “miracle.” Can you say positive Disneyland Mojo!

10. Engage

Now that you have your ears and flair adopt the spirit of the Magical Kingdom and do three simple things. Smile, say hello, and wave to people (when on a ride or other transportation). Every Disneyland employee has a name badge that includes their home town. They love it when people greet them with a hearty hello using their first name.

11. Food, Food, Food

There are many great choices of food and snacks at Disney, and I love it all. The important note here is that Disneyland and California Adventure Land both allow you to bring your own snacks and food into the parks. I would plan on doing so as it helps to have a boost while in a line from something other than cotton candy.

12. Rides

The big rides get all the attention but some of the smaller classic rides should not be overlooked. Great examples are Mr. Toads Wild Ride, It’s A Small World, Tea Cups, Mark Twain’s Riverboat, etc. Lines are shorter and kids of all ages love them, even adult kids. Be sure to check requirements for all those in your party wanting to try a ride. We saw many families having to leave to the front of a long line they waited in because they did not do so.

Finally, if you visit Disneyland with friends and family lookout for these 12 hidden gems and let me know where you find them.

  1. “Premium Gas – 5 cents a gallon”
  2. “Here Lies a Snake Whose Fatal Mistake was Frightening the Gardener who Carried a Rake.”
  3. “Brides for Sale”
  4. “Crystolic Fusion Batteries”
  5. “Warning: Do Not Disturb The Bats!”
  6. “Happy Un-Birthday”
  7. “Mustache Mona Lisa”
  8. “Short Change Bank”
  9. “The Happiest Cruise That Ever Sailed”
  10. “The Great Wart Myth”
  11. “Route 55″
  12. “Nowhere in Particular”
Do you have any Disney tips, tricks or stories to share? Let’s hear them!